Couples Counseling and Recent Changes, Very Interesting.

Three new articles recently appeared dealing with technology and child custody, responding to an  affair, and branding for therapists.

 The first discussed how mobile technology (cell phones) can ease the tension between parents in arranging child-related events. The next talked about how preconceived notions of dealing with an affair change over time. The last discussed the professional branding of a therapist as being essential in today’s marketplace.

These articles make for interesting reading. They demonstrate how times are changing in the way couples-counseling takes place and the way issues are dealt with by all concerned.

My website …………. http://www.counseling-connection.net/

Electronic Spying and Divorce Litigation — Many Do It, But Legality is Questionable.

Do you think that electronic spying on your spouse is appropriate during divorce actions? Many people do but the law takes a dimmer view of such spying. However, these actions are increasingly relied upon in divorce and custody cases throughout the United States.”Spy-Gear Transforms Modern Divorce.” Wall Street Journal (Oct. 6, 2012).

My website ….. Counseling-Connection (http://www.counseling-connection.net/)

Facebook and Divorce Litigation — 1/3 of New Filings Cite Facebook.

Here’s an interesting video concerning Facebook and divorce. Video– Facebook & Divorce (Facebook cited in 1/3 of new divorce proceedings).(CNBC (May 22, 2012).

My website …….. Counseling-Connection (http://www.counseling-connection.net/)

“Whiners” and What Therapists Should Do.

Great article and short video on “whining” and what therapists should do, aggressive therapy and tough love.For a Nation of Whiners, Therapists Try Tough Love.” and Video —  Wall Street Journal (May 15, 2012).

My website…….  Counseling-Connection  (http://www.counseling-connection.net/)

Wrongful Death Suit by Love’s Parents — More University Responsibility and Not an Aggressive Legal Defense by Virginia Should Be The Legacy.

Dr. Stuart S. Malawer (professor at George Mason University, School of Public Policy and member of the Virginia State Bar) writes ……… What should be the University of  Virginia’s response to the wrongful death lawsuit by the parents of Yeardley Love?

Should it be one of aggressive defense as Virginia Attorney General Kenneth Cuccinelli proclaimed?  Or should it be one recognizing the responsibility state universities have for basic student safety and to work with Virginia universities to recognize this and to improve it at all Virginia universities?

I suggest that the Attorney General should be positive and proactive to ensure that Virginia universities uphold their fundamental responsibility of providing security on their campuses.

The Attorney General needs to formulate polices that require all state universities to reduce drunkenness and criminal assaults by their own students. This may well involve addressing the counseling needs of students as well as better oversight of and by the athletic administrators. In a sense this would involve addressing some of the more destructive aspects of prevailing cultures at these institutions.

Student safety should be a basic obligation in light of state funding and huge tuition payments and sacrifices made by parents and students alike.

The University of Virginia should not let its brand be tarnished further by the same individual who recently attacked it for upholding basic academic freedom when he demanded it turnover emails and documents concerning a professor’s global warming research and lost that case as well as two more high-profile cases recently.

The reaffirmation of responsibility of state universities and the Commonwealth to students and parents for providing a safe environment ought to be the true legacy of Yeardley Love’s long-suffering ordeal. Let’s not compound it.

My website ………….. Counseling-Connection (http://www.counseling-Connection.net/)

Code of Silence and Huguely — Better Communication Needed.

The Love murder in Virginia is a tragedy.  Where were the parents, friends, or trusted loci parentis.  No one was taking action when the drinking problems and anger began. There was a code of silence. No one was communicating about what they saw. The lack of communication and prevention is the untold story. All who knew Huguely and said nothing enabled him.

My website …. Counseling-Connection (http://www.counseling-connection.net/)

New Blog on Couples Counseling — Better Communication and Better Relationships.

 

This is my first posting. Just want to tell you what this new blog will discuss. Simply put it will explore a wide variety of issues many couples experience. Often these issues stem from ineffective communication. Increasing communication skills will almost always enhance understanding and intimacy. I’ll be commenting on and discussing the general issue of couples and better communications as well as other topics related to enhancing relationships between loved ones. Stay tuned.

My website ….. Counseling-Connection (http://www.counseling-connection.net/)